珍惜相處的時光吧 ，畢竟有些道別，是連解釋的機會都沒有的 — 那些電影教我的事 Cherish every moment you have together. After all, not every goodbye gets any chance to explain. — Lessons from movies
哈囉，掰掰，我是鬼媽媽! Hi, bye,Mama!
韓劇感想 Thoughts after watching
第二篇想要分享的是第八集「不善離別的人們」。這一集帶到了許多寧靜納骨塔的靈魂們與其家人的互動，有出嫁女兒對爸爸的愧疚，因為太晚結婚讓爸爸沒有辦法驕傲地牽著她走紅毯；也有心疼癌症女兒的老母親不捨女兒的痛苦；更有全家唯一生還的兒子獨自居住、獨自思念父母姊姊的機師。
看著這些靈魂，不自覺也想到生前他們都是一個個活生生的生命，一個個正在綻放的人生，不論是因病或意外死亡，相信他們離開時最不捨的仍是身邊最愛的家人。其實死亡不是一個人的事，因為那會讓深愛你的人很痛苦、很難過，我雖然還不敢、也無法想像若有一天我留下剛出生的孩子先走、或面對父母的離開，會用甚麼態度或心情去過生活，抑或是如果真的有靈魂，我會捨不得孩子嗎?
世界上本來就不存在學得會的離別，我們只能在一次次的離別中學會重新整頓自己，才有力氣面對下一次的離別。
The second part I am going to share is the episode 8: ‘’Those who are not good at saying goodbye’’. We saw other spirits interaction between them and their family. The bride felt sorry of getting married too late caused her father cannot hold her hand walking up the aisle. And old mother was suffering by her daughter who got the cancer and struggling on the bed. Whereas a pilot who was the only survivor during the car accident that missing his parents and sister lonely.
When I saw these spirits who were once lively lives and were going to use their time well, they must feel very reluctantly to leave their beloveds whether because of the accident or disease. After all, death is not only ourselves business, it would have others love us pained and suffering. Although I do not bare and have no courage to image what would I do if I left my baby first or face the parting if my parents. If there is really exist a spirit, would I stay beside my kids?
There is never have a departure which we can learn well to face it. We can only learn to make ourselves restore again and better in order to face the next leaving.
